It was both
a blessing and a curse,
Her chestnut
hair was often tangled or worse,
There were
times Laura hated her hair,
Conditioners,
detanglers, moisturizers,
Sometimes
made her wish it wasn’t there,
It had been
that way as far back as memory could get,
Uncontrollable
when dry, hard to manage when wet,
Laura’s
curly hair was admired often, she’d confess,
But it was
often a distraction as a frizzy mess,
There
weren’t many options on how to fix her hair,
She worried
when the wind made it fly here and there,
Often Laura
looked out of control and people would rudely stare,
Looking
calm, peaceful, and beautiful was her goal,
Forgotten
were the comments about her beauty as a whole,
Intelligence
and her abilities made her special in all she did,
But under
hats, tied up in tight braids, her curly hair she hid,
Laura was a
businesswoman, ambitious in every way,
Determined
to be a success before she turned old and gray,
Laura was
also wife and mother with two children on her mind,
Time for
them or even for herself, was very hard to find,
Her husband
sent her flowers every month to let her know,
That he
would be waiting for her if she decided to take life slow,
Her life was
filled from dawn till night, with one job to the next,
Rarely did
she spend quality time with Joe, and both were too tired for sex,
Vacations
were quick and far away, with pictures to prove she was there,
But wherever
she went and whatever she did, she covered up her hair,
Questions
from a young M.D. on her routine annual exam,
Made her mad
when he said, “We need further tests for you, Ma’am,”
She went
through the tests mainly to prove him wrong,
Much to her
chagrin blood was drawn, it didn’t take them long,
Laura balked
at first when new appointments were made,
But soon she
was on her way and memories of the visit began to fade,
Later that week several phone calls at work
interrupted her day,
“We want you
to come in, not tomorrow, perhaps yesterday,”
“What’s so important?”
she wondered as she brushed tangles from her hair,
“I’ve always
been so healthy, so why should I care?”
That night
Laura brushed her hair ninety-nine times or more,
With each
tug she commented, “Curly hair is such a chore,”
But Laura
was restless, the upcoming visit was eating at her,
And at her
next appointment she decided she would concur,
“You have
cancer,” he said quietly, “we should treat it aggressively,”
“I don’t
have time for cancer!” she shouted, “or even time for me,”
“We need to
treat it with chemotherapy,” he stated, “as soon as we can,”
“If we want
to win this war, we have to make a plan,”
“Doctor, I’m
too busy for this, I’ll do chemo in the spring,”
“Then
they’ll bury you deep while you sleep, the chemo won’t mean a thing,”
The nurse
read a list of changes that Laura might expect,
Foods to
eat, nausea, loss of hair, there was little time to reflect,
She could
deal with changes in her diet, so why did she care,
Yet on her
way home one thought returned, she would lose her hair,
What would she
do about work, would everyone lose respect?
And what
about her children and her Joe, what would he expect?
“This is not
fair,” she thought, “I’ve fought hard to get where I am,
Now I have
cancer and that puts me in a jam,”
She’d talk
to the doctors and see how this could be fixed,
Laura knew
how business worked, maybe this could be deep sixed,
When Cancer Strikes
(Part 2, Birds of
a Feather)
She was
afraid to hug her husband, likewise with the kids,
With this
draining more from her, their marriage would be on the skids,
Joe listened
to her intently and suggested a group for her to attend,
“I don’t
need a support group,” she countered, “I just want to mend,”
He left a
number of the group in case she wanted to call,
For two days
Laura wanted nothing to do with the group at all,
But the
third evening as she brushed and detangled her hair,
Laura
wondered what others did when strangers began to stare,
She called a
cell phone number knowing she had to make a choice,
She agreed
to go to a meeting when she heard a cheerful voice,
“Come on and
join us, we’ll have a special guest tonight,
You’ll find
we have lots of fun because no one gets uptight,”
Nervously
she brushed her hair as she waited for her ride,
In the car
it was explained she’d have to wait outside,
Waiting
outside a home made her feel this was not the place to be,
But she only
had time to see what they wanted her to see,
Conspicuously
placed was a sign stating the group’s name,
“Birds of a
Feather” and in smaller print, “We’re all the same,”
Laura was
led in at the appointed time but saw one empty chair,
“It’s saved
for you,” a woman called out, “and your beautiful hair,”
How could
she explain that soon her head would soon be bare,
She was
afraid they might laugh and show they didn’t care,
Laura’s fear
was growing as she glanced about the room,
She was the
only one with cancer and ready to meet her doom,
Businesswomen,
single women, mothers, daughters, wives,
These women
were all beautiful and had normal lives,
“We have a newcomer tonight, so welcome Laura
with applause,”
The leader
continued, “And in case she’s worried, it’s time for us to pause,
We’ve faced
our fears before, and sometimes hid our shame,
But together
we are strong and our freedom we proclaim,”
One by one
each removed a wig to reveal her hair was gone,
“We’re all
in this together, no one is all alone,”
Their smiles
were wide and welcoming as the leader took her hand,
“When you
can, let Laura know that you really understand,”
When the
meeting was over Laura returned home,
She kissed
her children and showed them her comb,
She
explained her disease and told them about her hair,
They
answered, “We love you, mommy, we don’t care,”
Her husband,
Laura learned, was compassionate and kind,
He loved her
for her heart, her ambition, and her mind,
They decided
to fight cancer together and strive for the best,
And they’d
spend more time living and loving with zest,
The cancer
went into remission and Laura grew back her hair,
And whether
tangled, frizzy, or wind blown, now she combs with flair.
